One in four 14-year-old girls self-harm and well-being as low as it was 20 years ago, according to new children’s report

The self-harm statistics follow new analysis included in the charity’s annual Good Childhood Report, which examines the state of children’s well-being in the UK. The report looks at the reasons behind the unhappiness which increases the risk of children self-harming.

Nationally, the report said nearly a quarter of girls aged 14 (22 per cent) said they had self-harmed in just a year.

One in six (16 per cent) of more than 11,000 children surveyed reported self-harming at 14, including nearly one in ten boys (nine per cent).

Based on these figures, The Children’s Society estimates that across South Yorkshire 670 boys and 1,560 girls aged 14 — which could equate to more than 120 boys and almost 300 girls of this age in Rotherham — may have self-harmed during the same 12-month period.

Almost half of 14-year-olds who said they had been attracted to people of the same gender or both genders said they had self-harmed (46 per cent).

Four in ten of these children had shown signs of depression (39 per cent) and three in ten had low well-being (30 per cent) — both compared with 11 per cent of all children.

Matthew Reed, chief executive at The Children’s Society, said: “It is deeply worrying that so many children are unhappy to the extent that they are self-harming.

“Worries about how they look are a big issue, especially for girls, but this report shows other factors such as how they feel about their sexuality and gender stereotypes may be linked to their unhappiness.”

This seventh Good Childhood Report — produced in partnership with the University of York – gives the latest national picture of children’s subjective well-being and trends over a number of years.

Mr Reed said children’s happiness with their lives had risen steadily in the 15 years from 1995 to 2010. But this progress has now been reversed, he added, and children’s well-being was now as low as it was two decades ago

The Children’s Society’s new Good Childhood survey of 10-17-year-old children and their parents across 2,000 households, which is also part of the report, found children were least happy with school and their appearance.

It asked children about their experiences of school. Nearly a quarter (24 per cent) said they heard jokes or comments about other people’s bodies or looks all of the time, while more than a fifth (22 per cent) of those in secondary school said jokes or comments were often made about people’s sexual activity.  

Both made girls feel much worse about their appearance and less happy with their life as a whole, but this pattern did not apply to boys. 

The research also suggests both boys and girls can be harmed by gender stereotypes and pressure to live up to these expectations.  

Children felt under pressure from friends to be good looking but those who felt boys should be tough and girls should have nice clothes were least happy with life. 

The report suggests that happiness with family relationships could be the best protection for children because it has the biggest positive influence on their overall well-being.

Matthew Reed added: “It’s vital that children’s well-being is taken more seriously and that much more is done to tackle the root causes of their unhappiness and support their mental health.

“Schools can play an important part in this and that is why we want the Government to make it a requirement for all secondary schools to offer access to a counsellor, regularly monitor children’s well-being and have their mental health provision assessed as part of Ofsted inspections.

“Issues like appearance, gender stereotypes and sexuality should be included in the new Relationships and Sex Education curriculum.

“However, early support for vulnerable children and families in the community, which can help prevent mental health problems from developing, is also vital, and ministers must urgently address the £2bn funding shortfall facing council children’s services departments by 2020.”

The Children’s Society Report draws on four different surveys, for more information visit https://www.childrenssociety.org.uk/good-childhood-report.